Alphabets of a Heartbreak – V

Validation (noun): The reality is you need my validation so that you can feel less of an asshole after the way you treated me. One nice gesture from me will be enough for you. That’s why I have to cut you off.

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6 thoughts on “Alphabets of a Heartbreak – V

  1. I just want to say, I have read through your entire blog & I feel such a connection to your posts and story. Mine is extremely similar, and on a rough day like today, you have made feel so validated. I can’t thank you enough for just sharing. I created this WordPress just to comment officially. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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    1. I am so sorry that you are going through the same situation. It has been crippling time for me (both times were) and I cannot imagine how painful it must be for you too. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and comments. You will make out of the dark haze, I’m sure. I know I’m still trying to and there are days where I feel like I don’t want to, to be honest. But eventually, we need to believe that it will get better. Thank you for reaching out. It really does make a person feel better to know that they are not alone in this journey. I’m not sure if you’re comfortable sharing but if you need someone to talk to, I’m here.

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      1. Trust me I get it, every day I feel like I’m Peptalk Patty because I don’t want to be in a slump. Time moves completely different during breakups. It’s moment by moment, don’t catch me while I’m moping 😬 But I appreciate extending that offer, I don’t know if wp has a direct messaging part but whatever works for you! Sometimes it’s nice to talk to someone who gets it

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      2. Oh lord, the slump. It’s like you can’t even plan for tomorrow because you’re not sure how you’ll feel today. You are absolutely right about time moving at a completely different pace when you’re going through a breakup. Everything is slower and faster at the same time. To be honest, right now, I want it to be slower because Feb 14 is coming up and I am not sure how I’m going to survive it without looking at his Facebook and inflicting more pain on myself. I don’t think WP has a direct messaging function but if you want, we can totally do emails. You can find me at zafirah1509@gmail.com. That pretty much reveals my real name but it’s ok 🙂 You’re totally welcomed to stop by in inbox at any time!

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      3. Hahaha… my only fear (and reason for being anonymous) is because I’m afraid that he will find this blog. Hopefully it won’t get to that point! I’ll be waiting for your email! 🙂

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